Your story about the 'job for life' mentality in medicine really resonated with me. It's interesting how we can be so sure of our path, only to find out later that nothing is guaranteed. It reminds me of the saying, 'The only constant in life is change.' You had a prestigious degree and a secure job lined up - that's what many people strive for. But life threw you a curveball. It makes me wonder, how can we find a balance between planning for the future and embracing the uncertainty of life?
Thank you for such considered comments, Alex. Your observation on change as a constant is spot on as always. I always thought there would be a secure job at the end of all of the work, and then that wasn't the case, and having struggled with such uncertainty I made the decision to stop chasing. It has struck me recently, though, that the uncertainty I face now is not really different than when I was working and hoping for a permanent post, in fact it could be considered worse now - I am uncertain if or when I will ever be earning an income again, but there is something about this particular uncertainty and it being on my terms, that makes it somehow not just accepted, but embraced.
The audacity of the waiter assuming your Dad was the doctor! Really enjoying this series, especially as I have doctor friends that I sometimes worry I am not supporting in the best way
Haha indeed. I'm so glad you're enjoying it, for it has turned into a far longer tale than I'd intended when I set out to write. Your friends are fortunate to have you.
Your story about the 'job for life' mentality in medicine really resonated with me. It's interesting how we can be so sure of our path, only to find out later that nothing is guaranteed. It reminds me of the saying, 'The only constant in life is change.' You had a prestigious degree and a secure job lined up - that's what many people strive for. But life threw you a curveball. It makes me wonder, how can we find a balance between planning for the future and embracing the uncertainty of life?
Thank you for such considered comments, Alex. Your observation on change as a constant is spot on as always. I always thought there would be a secure job at the end of all of the work, and then that wasn't the case, and having struggled with such uncertainty I made the decision to stop chasing. It has struck me recently, though, that the uncertainty I face now is not really different than when I was working and hoping for a permanent post, in fact it could be considered worse now - I am uncertain if or when I will ever be earning an income again, but there is something about this particular uncertainty and it being on my terms, that makes it somehow not just accepted, but embraced.
“not just accepted, but embraced.” So powerful 🩵
The audacity of the waiter assuming your Dad was the doctor! Really enjoying this series, especially as I have doctor friends that I sometimes worry I am not supporting in the best way
Haha indeed. I'm so glad you're enjoying it, for it has turned into a far longer tale than I'd intended when I set out to write. Your friends are fortunate to have you.
Wow
What a Great writing
So refreshing but sadly it’s your life and I cant believe what you have to go through
I am looking forward for more amazing writing 😊regards
Thanks Monia! Lovely to see you on here ☺️ thank you for sharing my words, it means a lot 🩵